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Menurut kamu, mencintai diri sendiri itu implementasinya bagaimana? #selflove #selfcare #selfdevelopment #terriblychicme #proudlyindonesia


I, somehow, find self-loving always a bit challenging and requiring more strong willpower, in some sense. I am not talking about having a bath, or a massage, or hot cocoa while reading a good book - all, for me, are self-love in a more ‘rewarding self’ kinda way. I am talking about saving aside some of my paychecks every month I got them instead of directly spending them. The hardest morning when I need to drag myself to exercise. When I need to say no to that piece of moist chocolate cake, checking my budget and expenses regularly to make sure I am on track. To say no to that silk blouse. Letting go of a lousy relationship or unreal friendship. Saying no. And the hardest thing would be to forgive me. I made mistakes. Big or small. And these mistakes are having an impact on people’s life. It’s hard to love myself at this time when it happens. My brain might trick me into thinking about things that I am not. All the negativity will crawl around me, and at the end of the day, I would feel the complexity of self. It’s more or less like the grieving period. And until I accept and willing to learn and ready to move forward from it, there are chances that I probably lost the self-love for a bit too long that I should have. But I am learning that life goes on, mistakes will be made, lessons will be learned, and myself will be myself (so does yours!), and it will still be the self that needs and deserves love. I believe in constant learning to better ourselves, give ourselves what we deserve (a healthy bank account after a month of hard work, for example - and yes, occasionally a badass tiramisu!) and to have the balance in being kind and loving ourselves. So if any of you right now feel stupid, unhappy, in a weird place of your life with lingering bad habits, or badly bored living in an automatic pilot - (trust me, I’ve been there too) let’s try to give yourself some love. Forgive yourself for whatever unproductive laziness and super weak willpower. Grab a blank page and start writing what you want in your life. Set up a keystone habit this year! So, enough ramblings! Have you loved yourself today? #terriblychicme #youmatter #selflove 📸: Tom Rudolf


Because you matter.. 💙 #youmatter #loveyourselfday #terriblychicme #selflove


Among all those chocolates, those flowers, and the valentine's day hype.. Have you love yourself today? #terriblychicme #selflove


#youmatteredcampaign #celebrateyou #terriblychicme


Accept your insecurities. Start changing. Start reprogramm yourself. Let's be deliberate. Let's celebrate ourselves 🤗 #youmatteredcampaign #celebrateyou #terriblychicme 📷 : Tom Rudolf


We celebrate many things in our life. Success, achievements. But how often do we celebrate failures, rejections, vulnerabilities, struggles? How often do we celebrate... us? We, after all, have experienced all. We are all. Success and failures. Achievements and struggles. Rejections. Vulnerable. We are who we are. Yes, some are more fortunate than others. But we are special in our own way. We all experience ups and dows. We are all equal in emotions. We are all equal in taking lessons from bad mistakes, wrong decisions, misleading paths in life. We have the same chance, as long as we are alive, to come back and become better us. So if you are stuck in your bad habits, if you are lonely, if you are not satisfied with your life, if you are paying for bad mistakes, if you are unhappy about yourself, your face, your hair, your weight, your looks - let's start to change all that by celebrating you. Your imperfections, your failures, your vulnerability and your struggles the same way you would celebrate your success, achievements, birthdays, anniversaries, happiness. I believe we can reprogram ourselves. Our brain, our habits, our life. We just need to be more deliberate about it. Ps. I celebrated the real me the other day in this photo. I have always been feeling that I need to polish my face for my shoots. Even though very minimal like I normally do, I got to. Otherwise, the shoots won't look good. I got this habit from my old modelling days. But this time, in this photo, I reward myself by accepting insecurities. It felt good. 😊 #celebrateyou #terriblychicme #embraceyourself #youmattered 📷 : Tom Rudolf


When your monsterra lives longer than the money in your wallet 🙄 #3monthsandcounting #monsterra #plantlovers